Who Encourages You?
The word “encourage” comes from the French, and it actually means “to insert courage” or “to give to the heart”. We do a lot of encouraging in our work. For example, just in this week, we have been helping students during exam times and giving lots of encouragement… courage to keep studying, to stay focused until the last exam, and to believe in themselves. We have spent time with other mission workers, encouraging them in their training and preparation and partnership development efforts. We have had various phone calls and texts and emails to workers, encouraging them in their current situations. And we frequently have coffee meetings that are times of encouragement for weary pastors, friends, and neighbors in town. We actually love these times of “giving to the heart” of others and “inserting courage” in to those who are currently fearful or tired and feeling overwhelmed.
But who encourages the encouragers? We are asked that periodically by our mentors or other counselors and caregivers. “Who gives you encouragement? Who pours in to your heart when you are tired and overwhelmed or fearful?”
In polls and surveys and research regarding ways they feel encouraged, cross-cultural workers consistently respond with the same handful of answers.
· When people read our newsletters and updates and they reply to us about them
· When people let us know that they prayed for us
· When we receive real mail and real phone calls
· When we are remembered on birthdays and holidays
· When people come to visit us for the purpose of encouraging us and blessing us and our team
We have a handful of really great encouragers who encourage us! We have a couple of ladies who faithfully send us emails of encouragement. They are also the folks who never forget our birthdays and always send a letter and a card. We have one special partner who sends a package to us every month! The days when these small acts of encouragement come are special days that pick up our spirits and remind us that we are not forgotten.
In May, we had a super special visit. Two long-time friends in mission came to visit us FOR THE PURPOSE OF ENCOURAGING US! What?! That’s right… they came only to encourage us. They weren’t here to do sightseeing or anything special. In fact, they asked us to please NOT worry about entertaining them or taking them to all the sights. They just wanted to sit with us, to hang out on the patio, to eat long meals and have long coffee chats and (most importantly) to listen. They wanted to listen. To us! They didn’t really want to see us do anything special. They didn’t want to go see all of our ministry work. They just wanted to be with us and to listen. And they specifically asked us to not change our schedule for them or do anything out of the ordinary. They just wanted to come alongside and be available to us for encouragement and support and listening. What a blessing!!!!
This week, our teammates Axel and Delilah, had a similar situation. (I think God knew that as a team, we have been really needing some encouragement! It’s been a tough couple of months.) One of their long-time friends in mission came to visit them FOR THE PURPOSE OF ENCOURAGEMENT! Unbelievable! And he has lived in Peru for many years, so he wanted to meet us and encourage us, too! WHAT?! We had a wonderful time sharing stories about Peru and the places / foods / experiences we have in common. He was a huge blessing to us, giving us words of encouragement and lifting us up, letting us know that we are seen and understood and not forgotten, that we are in the prayers of the people and that even though the work is difficult, our hearts and our spirit of peace in the community will prevail. Wow!
We are so grateful for the Encouragers—those who have a spirit for blessing others with their acts of prayer, letter writing, mailing small gifts, phone calls, emails, and above all, TIME to talk and listen and remind us that someone cares. You may never know how much your acts of kindness have meant to cross-cultural workers who need a little pick-me-up on those overwhelming days!
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. ~1 Thessalonians 5:11
6/13/2018 08:34:11 am
Thank you very much for your transparency and touching on this topic! (You all are always so on time!) I was just speaking on this last week with a few friends and church members: how challenging it can be to always give give give and feel like you have no people to just simply sit with. I am so glad to see that I was not being unreasonable in desiring more encouragers encouraging encouragers. You all have been a steady encouragement to me since I was a wee lass, and I pray you never doubt the deep impact you have on the lives of others and the many prayers that go up for you each day.
6/14/2018 12:52:16 am
Aww! I love you, too! You have always been a bright and shining light since the first day we met you in Peru. Thanks for reading and for sharing your thoughts. Know that you are very loved, My Friend!
6/13/2018 11:24:17 am
Dear Drum family........... It has been and will continue to be my great honor to lift you all in my thoughts and prayers. it is a delight to read your blog entries, they are always spot-on and thought-provoking. I pray intentionally for you every Wednesday (you are on my Europe list) and every Friday (you are on my friends-I-met-at MTI list) and then on other days when god brings you to my heart and mind. I am thankful to hear that you have some very close encouragers that connect so regularly with you. you and they are a blessing
6/14/2018 12:54:11 am
Wow, Pam. Thank you so much for the prayers. It's so awesome to know that we are on your prayer lists and we are being lifted up. Really...that is a huge encouragement to us!
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In my USA life, I was a teacher in Texas for 15 years. I was also a professional photographer, a soccer mom, a horsewoman, and the neighborhood hospitality queen. I did "Joanna Gaines farmhouse style" before Chip and JoJo were even a thing - we restored an 1884 Victorian farmhouse in small town Texas and did shiplap walls until I thought I'd go crazy. I taught at NASA, scuba dived with astronauts in training, and studied animals at Sea World for educational purposes. I've tried just about everything, because I have an insatiable need to know if I can do it! Never underestimate a Texas girl in cowboy boots!
In 2006, my husband Billy and I became cross-cultural workers (CCWs) with TMS Global. For five years, we served in three rural Quechua Wanca villages in the Andes of Peru. And when I say rural, I mean RURAL - like no potty! I spent my days in Peru learning to live a Quechua lifestyle in a rustic adobe house - cooking Peruvian foods, sewing with Quechua women, raising my chickens and goats and pigs, and planting my gardens. Now I live my life in small town Spain, serving other cross-cultural workers via teaching and training and care, and helping displaced people to navigate their new reality in Europe.
I'm passionate about fostering personal growth, growth in community, and growth in The Kingdom. Walking alongside others and helping them to use their unique design, their gifts and strengths and maximize their abilities to fulfill their God-given purpose - that's what makes my heart sing!